You Can Be Talented and Still Broke: Why Networking Builds the Business You Dream About
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Let’s address the uncomfortable truth first:
In fashion styling — or any creative career — success is mainly not about talent.
It’s not just what you create. It’s who you show it to.
Real Story: The Two Painters
There’s a fascinating study that followed two painters:
Painter A: wildly talented. Technically brilliant. Expressive. Inventive. But he didn’t like attention — so he stayed in his studio, pouring his genius onto the canvas. He never promoted his work. Never networked. Never sent his art out into the world. When he died, his paintings were discovered and finally appreciated — too late to change his life.
Painter B: less technically gifted, but sociable. Someone mentioned his work to a small gallery owner. From there, he got invited to show in a slightly bigger space. Then a bigger one. And another. With each new gallery, he met more influential people — collectors, curators, tastemakers. His career snowballed.
Over time, he became respected, collected, and known — not because he was the best artist, but because he was visible.
🌟 Lesson: The better-connected painter made it because he put himself in the game. The more talented one waited to be discovered — and never was.
You Can Be Talented and Still Broke: Why Networking Builds the Business You Dream About
Let’s address the uncomfortable truth first:
In fashion styling — or any creative career — success is not just about talent.
I’ve met insanely gifted stylists who understand color theory better than most teachers, who create breathtaking outfit formulas, and who invest hundreds of hours into perfecting their skills. But they still struggle to get consistent clients. Why?
Because no one knows about them.
Meanwhile, others with average taste and average styling intuition are booked out. Not because they’re better — but because they’re visible. Connected. Embedded in a network that moves with and for them. = They are popular.
So here’s what we’re getting into today:
The most underrated success tool for stylists who want to get paid well, consistently, and without chasing:
Strategic networking.
Talent + Strategy + Visibility = Success
You already know you need to develop your eye. You read blogs, take courses, preferably even studied styling formally. That’s your base.
If you’ve been following my Stylist Summer Series, you also have:
A clear target audience
Refined branding and messaging
Packages that reflect your value and structure
Visually consistent deliverables
You’ve built the house. Now it’s time to invite people in.
Without a network, you’ll waste energy chasing cold leads. With a strong network, you’ll get:
Easier sales
Pre-warmed referrals
Repeat clients
Trust — which in this business, is priceless
Most Stylists Get Networking Wrong. Here's Why.
Networking is not:
Randomly DMing influencers
Pitching without clarity or confidence
Attending events and hoping someone “discovers” you
Networking is about planting high-quality seeds in the right soil:
Building long-term relationships
Becoming known in aligned circles
Creating referral pathways that work while you sleep
Let me show you how.
THE NETWORKING ACTION PLAN FOR STYLISTS
This is a 4-part system I’ve used to build a styling business in Milan — a city where fashion is saturated and competition is fierce. And still, I’ve carved out a space and built real trust.
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